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Many woman today are more outer attractive, than inner attractive. We see it today through social media post! Then when you get married, your husband sees all the things you hide from anyone seeing. Yes, you can’t pretend too long in a marriage. your husband sees how you bathe and if you get up and brushed your teeth. He sees if you drink water and exercise. He sees how you take care of the house and children. He sees how much time you really pray and do devotions.

Your husband also notice how you handle disappointments, depression, and the ups and downs of life.

It is important to value and care for yourself daily. Take moments to recover, pray, take a good bath, and even go to therapy if needed. Yet, do just look good on the outside, yet a mess on the inside.

Never think that you are alone in your care. You have God. Pray for God to help you in areas of need. Example, I use to get really angry when my husband disappointed me. Yet, I went to therapy and got help. I prayed also! Yet, I didn’t stay a mess. I got up and said “Claudina, you are to beautiful to have so much anger on the inside” I saw my value and got the help I needed in caring for myself.

I want to encourage you to put yourself in the hot seat of observation. Love yourself enough to get help!

When my husband proposed to me I was shocked. Honestly I knew it was going to happen. We had been dating for a while. Yet, I was dating him before I even met him. I know that may sound stalkerish but let me explain lol. So while I was single for two years I studied so much about how different wives around the world are. I studied how they served and submit to their husband. I studied how to be a lady, flirt, and even how to walk into a room. I was so ready to date my now husband before we met! I am perfect “no” I made mistakes. Yet, I am glad I studied the things I did. I know many may think just go out and do “your” best. But, I highly disagree! I believe in being prepared in every area of your life. There are too many resources for woman and us reaching any goals, to not study them!

Now I say this to also encourage you to keep studying others wives and learn from them. I wasn’t raised seeing my mom serve my dad! Yet, I also saw my dad stressed because he had to make his lunch, iron his clothes, and then head to work, after preaching all weekend! So I started waking up and ironing his clothes and making his lunch. I was 11 when I starting learning “How to make life easier for the breadwinner” so I began to find it an interesting topic. I wanted to learn how I can make life so much easier for my husband.

I saved my study for my husband. The man I new deserved these great qualities! I pray you do the same!

I am always asked, “What do I need while being a wife?” Well here is a list of must haves!

1. Serving trays: I have three different serving trays for my husband. One for breakfast, lunch, and dinner meals! I always serve him his meals on his tray.

Making sure your husband feels like a king is important.

2. Man glass mugs: yes, men want to feel like a man. Make sure you have a manly mug and glass cup for your husband.

3. Massage oils! This is a must especially after long days at work. Just pull out your massage oils and relax him.

4. Nail kit: this is important for when you do his feet

5. Lingerie! Yesssss wives!! Keep the bed room sexy. You are his strip club and porn star! Always have different colors of Lingerie and themes.

6. Robes and slippers for you and your husband: my husband loves his comfy robes. Order it in his favorite color.

7. A marriage devotional: Tony Evans has a great marriage devotional and the Bible app has great marriage devotionals as well!

8. lunch box for you husbands lunches: I make my husbands lunch every week day! Be sure to read my blog on: “how I nearly prepare my husbands meals.”

Remember that serving you’re husband is our job as wives! Always treat him like a king’