Many woman today are more outer attractive, than inner attractive. We see it today through social media post! Then when you get married, your husband sees all the things you hide from anyone seeing. Yes, you can’t pretend too long in a marriage. your husband sees how you bathe and if you get up and brushed your teeth. He sees if you drink water and exercise. He sees how you take care of the house and children. He sees how much time you really pray and do devotions.
Your husband also notice how you handle disappointments, depression, and the ups and downs of life.
It is important to value and care for yourself daily. Take moments to recover, pray, take a good bath, and even go to therapy if needed. Yet, do just look good on the outside, yet a mess on the inside.
Never think that you are alone in your care. You have God. Pray for God to help you in areas of need. Example, I use to get really angry when my husband disappointed me. Yet, I went to therapy and got help. I prayed also! Yet, I didn’t stay a mess. I got up and said “Claudina, you are to beautiful to have so much anger on the inside” I saw my value and got the help I needed in caring for myself.
I want to encourage you to put yourself in the hot seat of observation. Love yourself enough to get help!
The Submissive Wife 